Many can relate to what I am about to say. One of the frustrating things that you experience when you live in a foreign place is that it is hard for people to pronounce or spell your name.
I wish I had recorded every way people said my name for the past 5 years. That would have been hilarious :) But I am used to it now so it's okay and I understand that it's hard to pronounce foreign names.
Here are a few suggestions friends gave me to tell people how to say my name:
1. It's like Des Moines, the capital city of Iowa. Sometimes it works; sometimes, it doesn't because I have met people who don't know anything about Iowa. Not to exaggerate, someone has written my name exactely like Des Moines on the board one time. Funny :)
2. Just shorten it or cut it. Many have asked me to call me D. or Dee.
3. Get an American name like many of my Asian friends.
I have been using the first suggestions and it's okay, although people still don't get it. As for the second option, I cannot afford to cut my name in 2 or 3 parts. The 3rd option, I don't think there is any English or any foreign name that would fit my personality. Name means something in my culture, it shapes who I am. If I change my name, then I would have to change myself to fit that name.
So,
Domoina is my name and it means
"dove" in my language. I love my name and I just want to be called Domoina, period.